Monday, November 22, 2010

Happiness and health

Khatri, Manoj. "health is happiness." completewellbeing.com. 1 April 2007. Accessed on Nov 21. Web. http://completewellbeing.com/article/health-is-happiness/

" world health organization defines health as a state of complete physical mental and social well being."
when your mind and body feels good and relax of any hard stress it leads you closer of being a wellbeing.
"Living a long healthy, and happy life is what most of us hope to achieve." having to meet these goals you need determination.
Having stress and depression can cause problems for your body and you cannot find happiness from that.

Thursday, November 11, 2010

BLOG 7! ~

I am thankful for many thing espically my family and friends.
I am thankful for:
My mom
- making food for me
- massaging my back or leg any where I feel pain.
- not yelling at me for my low grades I get in school.
- teaching me how to be healthy and how to take care of my body.
- giving birth to me
- buying nice things for me to wear or use.
Dad
- picks me up when I'm done with my classes
- wakes me up in the morning to go attend school.
- gives me money so I don't steal
- not yelling at me when I got caught stealing.
- letting me have a dog
- always picks me up when ever I need a ride.
- caring about me
sister
- being there for me when I need her
- listens to me when I need to talk to someone.
- listens to my weird stories
- helpping me with my homework
- covering for me
- defending me when I get in trouble with my parents.
- understanding me
- accepting me for who I am
- being like another mom to me.
Boyfriend
- talking to me on the phone when I can't sleep
- walking a long walk to my house
- trying his best to make me happy.
- buying me things, that makes me happy
- being by my side when I need him.
- holding me when I'm cold
- walks my dog with me so I don't have to do it alone.
- liking me for who I am
- understanding me
life
- music
- medican
- sun light
- cars
- clothes
- peolpe
- air to breath
- parks
- animal
- education

Monday, November 8, 2010

DRAFT!

When finding the right person to be with, most people wouldn’t just want to be with any random person. People tend to search for someone that would match what they look or who interests them. Finding someone who doesn’t try to commit in their relationship or having to slack and doesn’t care to do anything to show how much they care, they will find themselves unhappy. Being In a relationship both partners have to try their best in order to make their relationship work.
Many people find it difficult being in a long distance relationship because of how far away they are and knowing if they can trust them. Most people would rather see their love ones daily instead of once in a long while, but having a positive attitude being in a long distance relationship can work out. Being away from a love one both must trust each other and make the time to see one another. Making the effort to see your love ones it would excite the partner and make them happier.
Planning romantic events improves the happiness in a relationship. It’s boring having to do the same thing over and over especially in a relationship, experiencing something new can always be exciting and enjoyable. If not having to do anything exciting together then the relationship is dull and you and your partners will not be as happy as you should be. Having to plan a nice event for your partner, not only they will feel happy but it would also make yourself feel satisfied and happy seeing them pleased.
In order to love someone, one must first accept them for who they are and not having to complain about what they lack of, doing so both couples will be unhappy. Most couples complain about how one should improve themselves to change into how they want them to be, mostly being able to change a person they would always end up asking for more changes.

Thursday, November 4, 2010

BLOG 5~

           In all relationships you always will come across an argument and we end up finding something to  complain about. Arguing are some times good for couples, because you end up understanding more about them and it shows how they really feel. but it's not good to argue frequently that wouldn't be healthy for your relationship. In most relationships it usually start off perfectly like they way you wanted, and thinking you would send your whole life with him or her. It seems like you would do anything for each other but later on thing changes, it could be you have lost feeling for that person or you might just feel they some how get on your nerves. If one person in the relationship decides to stop showing any effort of being a couple then surely the other will complain. One complaint they might have is how they cant be that one special person as they were the first time you meet them. In my opinion as one obtain what they wanted it would feel like there is no need to try any harder. As you see this result you try to change them for the better and that's when you start to complain. If he or she is trying really hard to fix their mistakes then it should mean they are really committed in being with their lover. Trying to change them for the better is good but it is even better to accept them for who they are. It is important to accept the result because if not then who you really like is not the person you are trying to change. I once tried to change my boyfriend for the better, i wanted him to do more for me i thought nothing was good enough. As i ask him to change one thing and as he changed i started pointing out more mistakes, i found myself asking him to change over and over. I had realized what i was doing was selfish and what i was looking for was just something different, i had tried to change him into something he was not, when i am the one who liked him for who he was.
         Real Love is loving someone for who they really are and not what they pretend to be. Most people try to be different just to turn into the ideal person of what the other is searching for. If someone is trying to pretend to be who they are not then they wouldn't be happy like that. The Real Self is not the ideal it is acting like how you really are, a person who makes mistakes and have weaknesses. Being who you really are you  should never be unhappy with yourself of  what flaws you have. Loving someone for who they really are and being your true self  it leads to happiness. Have you ever had an ideal person who you dream of being with? When I was little I always wanted to marry a guy who is rich, nice and someone who makes me laugh.i thought i found someone who fit that description, he seems like he doesn't make any mistakes and would always do everything i wanted to do, he made everyone happy, and cared about everyone. At one point i had noticed he had flaws but he never liked showing it. The main problem he had was he didn't like talking about anything that would embarrass him. Sometimes the ideal person for you might not be the one who you want to be with.
            Spending time with your love ones are very important, doing so you get to know more about them and having them by your side you can always feel safe and comfortable. When being in a relationship most people wouldn't like to be with their love ones to much they would want there own space on the other hand i like being with the person even if i see him everyday. It's not only in relationship, it is also good to spend time with your family or other relatives, friends and others who are also important in your life.